$(function(){  

 var player = $f("player", {src: "flash/flowplayer-3.1.3.swf", wmode: 'transparent'}, { 
      // flowplayer config 
    }); 
        
    // setup button action. it will fire our overlay 
    $("img[rel]").overlay({
        
        // use the Apple effect for overlay
        effect: 'apple',
        expose: '#f1f1f1',
        // when overlay is opened, load our player
        onLoad: function() {
            player.load();
        },
        
        // when overlay is closed, unload our player
        onClose: function() {
            player.unload();
        }
    });     
    
 
 });